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An
Annual Retreat with your Team
Retreats are an
indispensable part of the life of a church. Each ministry
team or department should have a yearly weekend retreat.
All the church leadership should also get together for various
one day retreats throughout the year to focus on fellowship
and deepening relationships as well as training and help
in evaluating their ministries and future plans. Within
this “retreat culture,” the pastoral team should
also have its own yearly retreat.
An annual retreat
can start on a Friday night or Saturday morning and go through
Sunday lunch or the end of the day Sunday, possibly missing
the Sunday service. The retreat can include the following
activities:
- Rest and Relaxation!
The team works all year, so the retreat should
be marked by a general atmosphere and special moments
of relaxation. For instance, the retreat leader
can bring a choice of movies, some good comedies and
some that focus in some way on the topic of working
as a team or on the type of ministry the team does.
Let the group choose which they would most enjoy watching.
You might go so far as to watch various movies
in a weekend, possibly watching two late into the night,
and having a later breakfast the next morning. If the retreat is at a place that has recreation facilities
this amplifies the options for R and R.
- Pastoral care,
generally done in small groups of 3-4 people.
You may want to give each person an hour to share, each
group prioritizing those with greater needs. If
they need more time, the people with less urgent needs
can cede their pastoral care time. The hour can
be divided into two separate moments, the first half
for hearing the person, and the second half for ministering
and praying for the person. Another possibility
is for people with less need to share during meals if
the small group can sit together at their own table.
- Ministry focus,
evaluating, planning, making decisions. Normally
a list of written recommendations should be distributed,
possibly even before hand, so this time can be efficient
and effective. The ideal is not to have a heavy
program, valuing other retreat activities.
- Hearing God together, either in the pastoral care or ministry focus
time. We don’t want the ministry to move
in a humanistic way, only depending on our resources
and human perspective. See
more.
- A topic or issue that can help with the continuing education or training
of your team members (optional, but worthwhile). It helps if such a study is a)participative, b) includes
a handout; c) allows time for sharing on the topic (possibly
in small groups) and d) the group or each individual
thinks about concrete follow-up steps.
You can return to
the initial proposal for pastoring
or mentoring leaders in the local church or go on to the next section of Pastoring of Pastors pages: practical tools for pastoring or mentoring of pastoral leaders.
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